Had a long chat with my BFF Nickna last nite. Discussed lots of things; about my problems, about her problems and about LIFE. She asked me to remind myself that, there are more people out there who are facing more trouble than me. Keep on looking others who suffer the most.. that's the only way to keep us appreciate what we have now. Yupss.. that's definitely true dear! Thanks so much dude...
After that, while surfing the net, I found one article on How To Appreciate Life. In this article you will learn how to appreciate what life has given you and learn how to be happy in spite of what you may be going through. Just follow the simple and easy step.
Step 1
Think about your life both good and bad. Don't dwell on what happened to you or the mistakes that you have made. Realize that life is not easy and there is no self help book that can make things go smoothly.
Step 2
Regardless of the past hurt, find forgiveness in your heart. We have to know that just like we make mistakes others make them too. They are not perfect and there is always a reason why people are they way they are. Accept that you have been wronged but in spite of love them. Forgive them. Make yourself happy because revenge only makes you more miserable and continuously talking about is sparks old feelings of hate, irratation,confusion, etc..
Step 3
Know that just because you are down for the moment does not mean that you are out for the count. Look ahead to the future. Think about ways to make you life better and stop complaining about why your life is so hard. All things happen for a reason and what does not make you crack will and can be used to strengthen you.
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Things you'll need : LOVE
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
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Aiman,
ReplyDeleteSemoga tabah menghadapi apa jua dugaan....setiap orang, lain dugaannya.
Walaupun akak x tau apa2, tp dapatlah mengagak kot apa yang berlaku dari luahan hati Aiman kat blog ,fb dan sedikit gerak geri Aiman.
Sori la kalau akak salah membuat tafsiran. Apapun, semoga tabah dengan apa jua yang telah dan yang akan berlaku
Thanks kak kerana memahami. Saya pon dapat agak yang akak tau yang saya tengah berperang dengan kemelut yang tak berkesudahan. Maafkan saya kak, bukannya tak mahu bercerita..tapi seboleh mungkin saya taknak orang lain susah hati sebab saya. Skali saya cerita kang banjir Duyung ni! hehehe
ReplyDeleteDoakan saya kuat utk hadapi ni semua ye kak.. luv u.. :)